i wouldn’t say i’m a hoarder but i’ve always been someone who collects things. recently my sister came to me and gave me some trinkets she got for free from someone else, and obviously i took them (who doesn’t like free stuff?!). i asked her how she just gave that to me and she was confused. i told her i didn’t understand how she could do that because it’s technically a gift! i would never regift something!! also you’re being mean to your trinkets!! you’re basically telling them that you don’t care about them! she was like “well atleast now they will be used by someone who wants them instead of not being used at all?” and i realized that i have way too much stuff. if i don’t get rid of stuff i’ll turn into a hoarder!! i struggle to tell family that i wont wear the clothes they bought me, but christmas 2024, i actually did, and i also sold some clothes that i know i wouldn’t wear!! im happy about it bc thats a huge step for me, but objects like fidgets and little toys i just can’t get rid of! my grandma is the type of person who buys silly gifts like weird screaming monster things, a wind up pug in a peanut car, etc, so that makes it wayyy worse.
anyways, so sum it up, how do i get rid of objects if i feel like im being mean to them by donating or selling them?
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